May 13, 2009 Dishonor says “That doesn’t matter”
A good way to communicate dishonor is by not making what’s important to someone you care about important to you. It speaks louder than your words saying that it matters. The fact that they choose to share something with you or to include you in it speaks volumes on their part, when you treat it lightly they tend to get offended by that and will possibly shut down. It’s because you have basically told them they don’t matter. It’s dishonor. Plain and simple.